Thursday, March 06, 2008

A Solution Looking for a Problem



In one of my Human Resource class, we were told of a legal case in Utah, where an employee of Gold's Gym was asked in many occasions by her superiors to show more skin and cleavage in order to attract male gym patrons. Good for her! I think she did the right thing.

To reflect that such practice, asking women to reveal more, and dress in a revealing matter, creates unfair pressure on females. So in order for a business to bolster (usually men owned), attracting more men to a business, necessitate women to show more. I know this is a practice for business in third world countries, I have seen in some Arab countries where they hire and only hire good looking females as sale associates...in order to lure men to buy things or consume things they might not buy otherwise; Sort of using the Hooters strategy. I have to say though that the women clothing stores and boutiques that tend to do well back home are usually owned and operated by a good looking, young, charismatic man.

That leaders me to say that the more traditional an area is, the more women are expected to bear with. This is something both developed and underdeveloped nations have in common, treating females differently. Even in the States women still get paid less for same work performed by men.

Also back home, a great deal women with higher education tend to get higher dowries...I guess because they are viewed as cash cows. I have a problem with that, accept that Islam told us not to interfere in the dowry, nor sit a limit. Women can ask for as much dowry as they see suitable. However, you still can negotiate a dowry, my dad would go with friends of his to negotiate dowries for their sons and make a deal.

I hope things will change for better
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Wednesday, March 05, 2008

Some Woman! And More of Them




So after extensive research, I found some pictures recent ones from a concert with Nicole Saba, a Lebanese singer and actress in which you can see men at the concert snapping pictures of this multi-talented performer. These two pictures were taking from the same concert. You can see some lady presence in the concert. So there are women in Arab concerts and not just dirty old overweight fellas (you still can spot many with cool gadgets). Still though for every woman there are about 10 guys not that matters. But I would be curious to find a concert with a popular male artist and see how many women are jumping to take pictures.

I guess my point is that due to the absence of many women in the entertainment industry, man has caused the moral code to deteriorate. It is not uncommon for female Arab performers to dress in low cuts and sexually revealing and appealing manners. I honestly believe that if there were more jobs for women in the entertainment sector in the Arab world, we would not have half naked performers.

Guys do not mind if women dress lower skirts and lower cuts, they do not mind, it takes a women to call another women out if lines were crossed and tell her "Hey, watch it!" Men on the other hand, will take anything because they do not mind the bonus show and tell! Do not get me wrong, I would never tell a woman what to dress and how to dress, not even my sisters. What I do think is true that women are responsive to other women and there is also the jealously element!

However, it is the traditional ones back home who want to have it both ways, they want women to stay at home and also want the entertainment industry to be cleaner! I think we cannot have it both ways...it is about tradeoffs and women tend to give up the ship much later than men (figuratively speaking).
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Tuesday, March 04, 2008

Catering to Voters

It is amazing what candidates say on the campaign trail...as I watched them make promise, I stand and see what Hillary, McCain, Obama say to court the Jewish votes and what they say to court that Arab/Muslim vote.

The three cadidates agree that the US is best buddy with Israel and this special relation needs to be stronger and better...like it is not great already. Saying this gets them the Jewish votes usually.

However if a candidate decides to speak to Arab American or Muslim American voters, such voters are out of luck, to hear promises of better relationships with their home countries...since the US has either invaded, or maintains a military presence in these counties. So for the Jewish voter, they always get "We are best friends with your second home Israel" The best promise an Arab or Muslim voter in this country can get is a promise from the candidate to carefully read the intelligence reports on that country before bombing that country. So Arab votes do not even get a promise not to be bombed at home...I find that interesting double standards!
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Some Observations



As I was taking the metro this morning, I see people read the news and since the metro is crammed, you get to read big titles of news. Today the majority of the news papers had one major news item "Israel withdraws from Gaza", "Israel Leaves Gaza" or some other title along the lines....That's fine, but the thing is none of those newspaper reported that Israel went into the Gaza Strip. The ct of leaving Gaza is a good news for Israel and thus it can be reported, but God forbids any news that might be negative to Israel is buried somewhere near the obituaries. also when Abbas got fed up with the Israelis, and came under lots of pressure to suspend the meetings with the Israelis, he did do just that. On the same day he suspended the meeting, more than 70 Palestinians were massacred, the news came out "Abbas suspends talks"". Just an observation...

Also, it seems to me that the only time Muslims casualties are reported and commented on if these causalities happened either protesting some invasion or protecting the prophet cartoons. Most people can tell you that 11 people died in Pakistan as a result of violence in protecting the cartoons of the prophet. But most will fail to give you a number of the victims of the wedding in Afghanistan the US military wrongfully bombed...another observation!

There were Israelis that were killed as a result of the Israeli attacks and the Palestinian homemade rockets. The numbers is one Israeli causality to at least 130 Palestinian causalities 1:130. But obviously the death of one Israel justify killing 130 Palestinians. Some Rational! And the shocking thing is there are people who still believe that the Arabs want to push Israel to the sea, so it is OK to punish people for what they say. But when it comes to pushing people for what they do (Israel actually pushing the Palestinians to see) they turn a blind eye! As my good friend Jehad said "If Israel was putting Palestinian children in meat grinders in Gaza, no one would give a damn" I find that to be equally true and disturbing.

It is sad how many Arab and Muslims nations are passive when it comes to helping the people of Gaza and Palestine. it takes the death of tens of Palestinians, the harming of hundreds, and destructions of countless homes to get the attention of the Arab and Muslim leaders to send their aid (mainly food and medication) and support. The Arab and Muslim people are always supportive, no matter what, but it takes a carnage to get their attention.
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Monday, March 03, 2008

Watch Frame 3:14



This is the final part a new Arabic song, sort of "We Are the World" it is touching, and brings me to tears each time I look at...the footage is real there is no editing...the song chronicles the last 10 years in the Arab World, it has more than 100 Arab artists and singers....but the moment that touches me the most is at 3:14 of the clip you see...Keep in mind that this is 45 minutes long song...it brings tears in the eyes of those who speak Arabic, and it is sad because neither Americans safe, not Arabs are fond of The way the US conducts business...

The reason that shot of the kid is the most touching and closer to my heart is that the kid keeps his composer until he realizes that he has lost someone (not sure if it is father, mother brother, sister) and that this death is real. See the tears in his eyes...I swear he looks like every good kid I have seen in the Streets of Gaza and the West Bank. I do not know what happened to this kid, but sure hope he is better off than before.

There are other real stories cough on videos through out the entire song...there is also the girls on the beach of Gaza who just witnessed her entire family get killed as they were resting on the beach by none other than Democratic Israeli forces that was unlucky to have a BBC reporter document the powerful moment!

I know you might think will these videos do not show Israelijavascript:void(0)
Publish Post causalities, it is true, they do not…they do show American causalities. The thing is if five people die in a car accident, this might get reported on the news all over the networks…but if the five people were in a car accident on a busy news day like 9/11, we are less likely to hear about it…it is all about proportion and context!
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When A Man Sees a Woman...





these are some pictures I received via email from my friend Ihab, I thought they were funny, yet typical of arguments and opinions I heard about women...anyhow I think they are entertaining, a good way to start a week...
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Sunday, March 02, 2008

Uphill...Downhill...What the Hill?



The Financial Times had a great article by Christopher Caldwellit is ironic that a British paper would have one of the best articles about American elections; here are few of his observations summarized:

-Obama wants to bring people together by working together with those who hold the same political views and those who do not "Let's All work Together" I think he will need to work with all there is to work with

-Hillary only wants to work with those who agree with here political views since the guys who do not agree with her views, despise here. She offers "I will do your work for you"

Hillary further gives the Americans who are not on her side the impression that she feeds on their enmity. This includes all and each last Republican and a good chunk of independents. Her game plan to winning is to unleash her comrades to bury the opposition. That is why she sneaks in the word “passion” or “passionate” into almost every televised performance.

-Obama will build a wider coalition with moderate Republicans, independents, and greens. Hillary can only work with Democrats only, since even Republicans and great deal of women hate her gut!

-Hillary always says, "I am a fighter" unless she is accustomed to fighting with friends, fighting only happens with foes! Are we all foes that need someone to fight for us? Or fight us?

-Hillary views voters as friends or foes (reminder me of with us or against us Doctrine) Obama appeals to all, cross the board!

-I hope this thing is over by Tuesday once the good folks of Ohio, Vermont, Rhode Island, and Texas cast their votes and either give us all a break or just prolong our suffering with this dazzling race!

-Obama owes much of his success to the same the Regan appeal, the charm, the charisma, and the personality that kept the votes coming!

-Joke of the day, I heard it on Comedy Central "The last thing you need is another black guy begging for change" "No, Mr. Obama I m keeping my quarters" I thought it was funny!
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